"Whatever you look for and expect to see in the world you will find, look for kindness and you will find it."
This time it came in the form of generosity and true selflessness. I love the phrase 'thoughtlessly kind' and this truly was that as when I pointed out to this person how amazing what she did for me was she responded with a truly baffled "what did I do?"
To put this super active weekend in small perspective: I was told several times last year "I'm healthy and this weekend is overwhelming and utterly exhausting for me". And I was asked more than once while there "how are you doing this? I can't believe you're here".
So that gives you an idea of the difficulty (and fun!) of this 42 hour jam packed event.
In true GS fashion we moms are each required to volunteer for a 2-3 hr shift at camp. My job this year was in the craft shell from 10-12 Sat.
Now, background- last year I was unable to make it to the campfire /talent show at the end of the big day because my body was just too exhausted from so much hiking, walking and just DOING. My thoughtful 7 yr old at the time decided to go back to the cabin with me because "she didn't want to go to the campfire" which I later learned actually meant "I felt bad for you and wanted to spend time with my momma". Yeah❤️
So this year I was worried about this. My little girl said she really really wanted me to go but it doesn't even start until like 830 or 9 pm. After a day of major activity all over the woods.
Now that you have all of the pertinent history...
As my troop mom's and I were standing watching our girls do archery (in the 90 degree heat at 930am!) one asked me what my "official" diagnosis was. This led to a discussion of symptoms and spoons. As these two mom's listened to me describe the spoon theory and mention how I wish I had let them know ahead of time that I couldn't volunteer (I HAD let them know certain limitations I had and what I needed from them in order for me to be able to go, but shirking my volunteer responsibility wasn't something I was ok with at that point) because I was already running low and wanted to spend my spoons hanging out with my kid, not volunteering without her for two hours. I really wasn't complaining or whining, it was just a fact. You can guess what happens next.
Without hesitation:
Mom #1 "do you want us to do your volunteer shift?"
Mom#2 "yeah we can just split it"
Me(of course) "no no I'll be fine"
Mom#1 "don't be silly you should save your energy"
Me "this is not why I told you guys this!"
Mom #2 "oh my gosh we know. The fact that you volunteer to be a girl scout troop leader tells us that and says a lot"
Mom #1 "the girls want to do crafts at some point anyway. We'll take them now so we can volunteer and do crafts with our girls. Not a big deal"
Me "but.... I don't know. Are you sure?"
Mom#1 "yes. We want you to make it to the rest of the day. Its silly to use energy for this. Go lay down until lunch and don't think about it again".
I made it to the campfire that night because of those ladies. I told them many times how much it meant to me and how huge a deal it was for me, but I don't think they can ever know what that meant to me and my daughter. To them it seemed simple and easy. To me it was huge.
Small acts of kindness can change big things.
Thank you again ladies.
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